Use the following instruction to help children deal with difficult emotions. It works beautifully. … in fact, it can be any word he or she chooses.

And after he/she has chosen a special magic word to make the difficult feelings go away, you can say:

“To turn your magic word on,

All you have to do is say your magic word 3 times …
and turn around three times …
and jump up and down three times …
and it will automatically TURN YOUR MAGIC WORD ON.

“And then    …  ta da  … once your magic word is turned on  …
every time you use it in order to FEEL GOOD …
it will make you FEEL HAPPY, RELAXED AND CALM …
and it will remind you that you are THE COOLEST KID …
and that YOUR mother and father love you enormously.

“OK  _________ ,   now, turn your magic word on.”

“Try this, it really works!”

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